As Told by Gino

I was back in Jurong West yesterday to help my mom out at the shop and then the ever talkative Gino stopped by. Gino is an optician who takes care of the shop next door that sells spectacles, contact lens etc. So we started striking up a conversation about what guys do when they like a girl because i was curious and   bored. Plus, he didn't mind (he actually enjoyed the 'interview') and kept asking me to ask him more questions. So here in this post, i'm going to tell you what guys do or think or whatever when they see a gal they like and so i call this post "As Told by Gino" enjoy~

Turn-offs for Guys when Dating

1. When girls take a long time to reply to a text- the limit is one day.
2. When girls don't offer to pay for the meal, or at least try to. "Not that we're cheapo," says Gino, "but she should at least pretend to but we will insist to pay like a real man. Though for me, if she insist at least once, it'll be kinda cool."
3. Desperate girls. What totally kills the attraction vibe no matter how sexy the girl is is when she appears  desperate. Long winded texts, clingy personality totally kills the whole thing. "I like a girl who remains mysterious even when we're dating," he grins. Glancing to my brother who was next to him, Gino asks, "you think so too right?"
   
   Without even thinking for a second, my brother high fives him, roaring in agreement. (i rolled my eyes)
   
   
   
4. Taking a long time to prim yourself. "For example," he suddenly sighs in frustration just thinking about it, "If we're going on a date, don't go for a manicure and expect us to wait outside the parlour, we don't have time for that! Do it at your own time! Instead, i prefer going for sports activity or something both people can do."
5. Don't shop for too long. I was shocked at that part too girls and was about to demand he clarify when he seem to have thought better of it and rephrased himself "When we're still in the DATING PHASE AND NOT GF/BF YET. If we're still on the first date kind of thing, don't ask us to go shopping with you for a long extended amount of time, what do you expect us to be doing?"
   
   "Oh i remember one time when the girl i was dating wanted to shop for bras," Gino looks into the distance. I assume he enjoyed that part of the shopping because this allows him to visualise the girl's chest. "I didn't mind that part of the shopping," he says in a straight face while nodding. Well you don't say

What Guys do when they like a Girl

• "We try to make the girl laugh", says Gino
• "You know when a guy likes a girl when tries to tickle her", one of my guy friends said
•   He pats the girl's head
• "the game is on when he offers to walk home with you," grins Gino
• Texts you  a lot
• If you ask him to find something, he wholeheartedly does it
• And other stuff i can't really remember anymore