30 May 2013

No Surprise There

Everyone in my life know that i am a very private person. Maybe on my Facebook, i reveal my favourite movies and some statuses i allow to go public but beyond that, i don't reveal much about myself to others-on the internet and outside.

Even when i socialise which i love doing (only with the right people) don't like to talk much about myself because one of the many things i've learned in life is that:

  1. People you have just met, don't really care to know that much unnecessary details about you
  2. Shining the 'conversation spotlight' on someone else makes them want to talk more and slowly like you 

For the latter, i've done so many times and at the end of the day, always seem to get the phrase "Don't tell anyone what i told you! Why did i say that anyway?"

Sometimes, it's much more fun listening to someone else's story than talk about my own.

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